long time no speak.

I let myself realize today that if I don't get out of the city, I will never grow up. that is to say that I had a conversation with my dad tonight about transferring colleges and he keeps saying that I should stay in the city to have him & mom as a support system but I need to get out and do this myself. I need to be able to pull myself up from the shit and be an independent person. I don't think that's an unrealistic goal to have -- in fact, I think it's a very important goal to have. no?